THE WAY WE WERE
As the song says, Memories light the corners of my mind. I can’t express it better and the truth of it becomes more evident every year. My generation is living longer than any previous one and we are working for fewer hours each week and for fewer years, so we have the luxury of more time to think, and to reflect on the memories we have accumulated - those Misty water-coloured memories, softened by the passing of time. The poet, Roger Robinson, talks about each of us having a ‘portable paradise’ which we carry around with us, concealed, so that no one can steal it. When life puts us under pressure, he tells us, we should find a quiet place, spread the elements of our paradise out under a lamp and look at them again. I think of my paradise, my memories, as being like a collection of interesting stones, carefully gathered over time, and lovingly saved. Every now and again, I take them out, polish them and think of the way we...